…To All the Nice Guys (& Girls)


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Great news! I’ve just had a second article published by Elephant Journal! Please click here to read it. Then share it with the world and let me know what you think in the comments. Also, don’t forget to like me on Facebook and follow me on Twitter. Thanks for reading, friends. Lots of love! šŸ™‚


4 thoughts on “…To All the Nice Guys (& Girls)

  1. Really enjoyed your article…and can see the nice girl in me too. Well, she is still there – about 50% perhaps ??- the rest has “grown out of it”. Thankfully. Not so easy to get along with a lot of people – especially family, since they are so used to you being NICE – but after the initial “hiccups” it does feel so much better, doesn’t it?
    I’ll have to come by and more stories by the ex-nice-girl …but what does the recovering asshole have to do with that? Nice or asshole – what was it / what is it?

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    • Thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed my article. I agree, I experienced the same uncomfortable transition period where people in my life were adjusting to my changing. A lot of new and interesting dynamics were born, and a lot of people had to be cut. Such is life, I suppose. As for the “recovering asshole” I believe one can be an asshole and a “nice guy” simultaneously. The way I define a “nice guy” paints a picture of someone not necessarily genuinely nice being phony and bending their behaviour and decisions in order to make life easier. I was both a “nice girl” and an asshole. Thank you for allowing me to clarify šŸ™‚

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